奶嘴男：揭秘更健康的感情关系

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近日，一本名为“奶嘴男”的新书声称，揭秘了一种全新的感情关系模式，称其能够让感情关系更加健康。这本书探讨了男性在感情关系中的角色定位，提出了一种新的理念，即“奶嘴男”，强调男性在恋爱和婚姻中应该更加包容、温柔，放下传统的男子气概，更加注重情感表达和沟通。作者认为，这种新的男性角色定位能够帮助男性更好地理解和支持女性，建立更加平等、和谐的感情关系。书中还列举了许多实用的案例和建议，帮助男性读者更好地应用这种新的理念。这本引发了广泛争议的书籍正在引起社会的关注和热议，许多人对其内容进行了积极的讨论和思考。

They have long been ridiculed for being sissies or too feminine. But now it seems that being a mummy’s boy might actually be a good thing for a man.

A new book claims that having a close mother-son relationship actually helps boys to have a better relationships with others.

Author Kate Stone Lombardi says the old stereotype that these men are weak and more likely to be gay is not true.

In fact, mummy’s boys have a ‘broader definition of masculinity’ that is of significant benefit to their mental health.

Mothers with close relationships to their sons have featured in countless films including the 1960 Alfred Hitchcock classic ‘Psycho’, in which Norman Bates becomes a neurotic killer.

They have helped cement the idea that bringing up a child like that was damaging and unhealthy for both parties.

Miss Lombardi, however, disagreed and made contact with more than 1,100 mothers over the internet to explore their experiences.

The 55-year-old, who has a 23-year-old son and 26-year-old daughter, found that society fears a ‘blindly adoring mother’ putting endless praise on her son.

She said that the widely accepted stereotype is that ‘any boy close to his mom will be a sissy, a wimp, forever dependent and never a man who can have a healthy relationship’.

Miss Lombardi, who lives in Chappaqua, New York, added there was also an ‘unspoken fear’ that if a mother was too great an influence her son would turn out gay.

Her book, called The Mama’s Boy Myth, argues that the reality is the opposite and that a close mother-son relationship is ‘good for their mental health.

These sons are also less likely to become repressed men who cannot talk about their feelings, less susceptible to peer pressure and more likely to delay their first sexual experience.

Another benefit is that mothers are better communicators, Miss Lombardi said: ‘We don’t know why - if it’s specifically because of the nature of the mother-son communication.’

(Read by Nelly Min. Nelly Min is a journalist at the China Daily Website.)

(Agencies)

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